Friday, July 30, 2010

Blackberry Witnessing

Lesson #1 from downsizing.
My dear wife and I are in the process of downsizing from a four bedroom house to a two bedroom, 800 square foot apartment. The next several blogs will deal with some lessons we are learning in this process.
We recently spent about ten days in Pittsburgh doing three things:
1. Packing and planning for the remaining furniture to be moved to our current home in Syracuse
2. Removing the residuals of forty years of marriage that we could not move into our apartment
3. Beginning to prepare our house to be on the real estate market as soon as possible.
In the process of accomplishing phase #2, we had a moving sale over two days. We did pretty well with it actually. Our marketing plan was very well thought out. We simply put the sale on Craig's List and purchased two bright orange poster boards. We already had the markers, so the budget for this enterprise was 99 cents. Remarkably, we netted almost $600 from the sale.(excluding the exorbitant marketing costs)
A young father came by with his five year old son, Matthew. I was intrigued by the patient way this Dad taught his son about the tools I had for sale, etc. In an attempt to break the ice on a more serious note, I shared with Matthew that I knew of a book by his same name. Then I pulled out my newly acquired Blackberry and opened up the Bible to the book of Matthew. We began to talk about the book and how it had the same name as he did. The Dad then said to his son, "You know about that book from church. Right?" We had a delightful conversation and they left with an armoire that has been in our family for many years. But more importantly, I learned that every opportunity is a witnessing opportunity if you look closely for the way to approach it and are sensitive the Holy Spirit!

Friday, July 23, 2010

No Regrets!

Lessons from my Mom's recent home-going.
My family ( Dolly, our two children and their families including all six of our grandchildren) spent 3-4 days with my Mom between Christmas and New Years this past year where Mom presented all six of our grandchildren with homemade quilts she had made for them. Then I made the extra effort to visit her on Mother's Day this year. The first weekend of June I flew down for another visit as she was not doing really well. On Monday before she passed away on Tuesday morning, I spoke with her by phone. She was in great spirits and seemed very happy and up-beat. In short, I have no regrets that she knew that she was loved by her oldest son. I may not have done as much as others in the family and I may have done more than others. However, when I lay my head on the pillow at night, I really only have one person to please, the Lord Jesus Christ. He knows I have no regrets!
As a matter of fact, a life of "no regrets" describes Mom pretty well. Since Dad passed five years ago, she has fought being alone and recently had told the family on several occasion that she was ready to go home. At eighty-three years of age, she had no regrets.
Paul said to young Timothy, "For I am already being poured out as a drink offering, and the time of my departure has come. I have fought the good fight, I have finished the course, I have kept the faith; in the future there is laid up for me the crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the righteous judge, will award to me on that day; and not only to me, but also to all who have loved His appearing. II Timothy 4:6-8
These were some of the last words Paul ever wrote and could be titled, "No Regrets!"
How could you and I live a life with no regrets?
1. Be certain of a personal relationship with Jesus Christ as our Lord. I John 5:11-13
2. Share that relationship at every opportunity in life. Matthew 4:19
3. Understand the Scriptures to be obeyed rather than just learned. James 1:22
4. Risk everything for the cause of Christ! Acts 15:26